As far as I know, you can't set a grabber by channel tag or network. However, you can configure different grabbers with different priorities. Maybe that could help.
I have only looked at grabbers once, a long time ago. As far as I recall, they are script files installed somewhere on your system. You could just copy/rename/edit the multiples that you need.
In the TVH channel configuration, you can pick which exact grabber/channel combination to use for EPG data for a specific TVH channel. Even if you get the same channel from 2 grabbers, you can manually configure a channel to select which grabber to use.
Depending on your programming abilities, perhaps you could also filter undesirable EPG data before the XMLTV data is sent to TVH.