I use tv_grab_url to grab EPG data for USTVGO and Pluto TV that runs from Cabernet.
I use the Extra arguments: -u http://192.168.1.83:6077/xmltv.xml in the Tvheadend in the EPG Grabber Modules tab for tv_grab_url (6077 is for Cabernet).
A successful run looks like below:
2021-12-01 00:05:00.008 [ INFO] spawn: Executing "/storage/.kodi/addons/service.tvheadend42/bin/tv_grab_url"
2021-12-01 00:06:04.448 [ INFO] xmltv: /storage/.kodi/addons/service.tvheadend42/bin/tv_grab_url: grab took 64 seconds
2021-12-01 00:06:05.925 [ INFO] xmltv: /storage/.kodi/addons/service.tvheadend42/bin/tv_grab_url: parse took 1 seconds
2021-12-01 00:06:05.925 [ INFO] xmltv: /storage/.kodi/addons/service.tvheadend42/bin/tv_grab_url: channels tot= 436 new= 0 mod= 0
2021-12-01 00:06:05.925 [ INFO] xmltv: /storage/.kodi/addons/service.tvheadend42/bin/tv_grab_url: brands tot= 0 new= 0 mod= 0
2021-12-01 00:06:05.925 [ INFO] xmltv: /storage/.kodi/addons/service.tvheadend42/bin/tv_grab_url: seasons tot= 0 new= 0 mod= 0
2021-12-01 00:06:05.925 [ INFO] xmltv: /storage/.kodi/addons/service.tvheadend42/bin/tv_grab_url: episodes tot= 8925 new= 3260 mod= 3260
2021-12-01 00:06:05.925 [ INFO] xmltv: /storage/.kodi/addons/service.tvheadend42/bin/tv_grab_url: broadcasts tot= 8925 new= 3241 mod= 3241
I see the following command and response in the Cabernet log prior to a successful run:
2021-12-01 00:05:00,104-INFO:web_handler [192.168.1.83] "GET /xmltv.xml HTTP/1.1" 200 -
2021-12-01 00:05:02,291-DEBUG:epg2xml Processing EPG data PlutoTV:default 2021-12-01
2021-12-01 00:05:28,333-DEBUG:epg2xml Processing EPG data USTVGO:default 2021-12-01
2021-12-01 00:05:38,407-DEBUG:epg2xml Processing EPG data USTVGO:default 2021-12-02
2021-12-01 00:05:49,152-DEBUG:epg2xml Processing EPG data USTVGO:default 2021-12-03
2021-12-01 00:06:01,092-DEBUG:epg2xml Processing EPG data USTVGO:default 2021-12-04
2021-12-01 00:06:04,205-DEBUG:epg2xml Processing EPG data None:None None
But don't see a corresponding command and response in the Cabernet log when the connection was refused.